A friend of mine sent an Instagram reel to me of Chris Rock's stand-up. Chris said, "Love hard or get the fuck out." This is a concise statement of how I want my next relationship to be. https://www.instagram.com/reel/CpDwQaQOtFb/?igshid=N2Q2MGM2OGQ%3D Love Hard or GTFO If you want me, show me. If you are not capable of that, then... Continue Reading →
Red Flags Part Deux
Now that I am forced to date again, here is another list of personally observed red flags! Tries to get you to have sex with him in a coffee shop parking lot on a street bustling with nightlife. Texts, "Let's fuck," after 5 message exchanges. After he ends your "whatever it the fuck it was"... Continue Reading →
Red Flags
A small but personally observed list of relationship and dating “red flags.” When a guy you’ve gone out with a handful of times starts sending you videos from Prager U.When a man says he’s “confused” about his feelings for you after spending months convincing you of those feelings. When the person you are dating brags... Continue Reading →
The Wife-Mom Quagmire
Before you get married ask your partner what their expectations are. In fact, point blank ask them, "Are you look for a partner or a parent?" If you are looking for different things, don't get married. If you have the expectation that marriage is a partnership and it ends up being a parent/adult-child relationship chances... Continue Reading →
Soul Igniting Love
I want out-of-your-mind love. I want love that shines brighter than the brightest stars. I want someone to love me so much that there are no questions or doubts, that they are my person. I don't want to wonder, "Am I a consolation prize?" I want fire. I want passion. I want soul igniting love.... Continue Reading →