Romantically Traumatized

I have been romantically traumatized. I'll probably miss out on the next great love of my life because I won't believe him. I've written before about how my marriage wasn’t where or what I wanted it to be. I started this blog when we were separated. Now, that my husband is dead I feel like... Continue Reading →

Red Flags

A small but personally observed list of relationship and dating “red flags.” When a guy you’ve gone out with a handful of times starts sending you videos from Prager U.When a man says he’s “confused” about his feelings for you after spending months convincing you of those feelings. When the person you are dating brags... Continue Reading →

The Wife-Mom Quagmire

Before you get married ask your partner what their expectations are. In fact, point blank ask them, "Are you look for a partner or a parent?" If you are looking for different things, don't get married. If you have the expectation that marriage is a partnership and it ends up being a parent/adult-child relationship chances... Continue Reading →

Marriage is a Four Letter Word

I can't speak for all marriages, but I can say that mine is a four letter word. My husband and I are so different. Trying to hold a conversation with him about anything other than motorcycles is damn near impossible. In fact holding a conversation with him period is difficult as fuck. He listens to... Continue Reading →

A Friendly Betrayal

I have lied. I have cheated, both in school and in relationships. I don't feel good about any of it. I cheated on a test in college. I cheated on my homework and classwork in high school. Not all the time. Honestly, I was usually the one that was cheated off of, but I did... Continue Reading →

We Were on a Break!

Separation can be good.  My husband and I have been married for almost 16 years.  While that isn't anywhere near the 50+ years my grandparents were married.  Or, even the 38 years my parents have been married; it is a long time to spend with someone.  We separated for nine months.  He moved out.  We... Continue Reading →

Ghosting Versus Vanishing

The difference between ghosting and vanishing is when someone ghosts you, their vanishing act haunts you, whereas, when someone vanishes, you really don't give a shit.  I am guilty of vanishing, however, I am also guilty of ghosting, especially when it comes to this blog. Sorry. I hate being ghosted.  I mean, who likes it? ... Continue Reading →

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