A friend of mine sent an Instagram reel to me of Chris Rock's stand-up. Chris said, "Love hard or get the fuck out." This is a concise statement of how I want my next relationship to be. https://www.instagram.com/reel/CpDwQaQOtFb/?igshid=N2Q2MGM2OGQ%3D Love Hard or GTFO If you want me, show me. If you are not capable of that, then... Continue Reading →
Actions > Words
After all the heartache I have experienced I can be thankful for one thing, I know what I am and am not willing to put up with. Through all the good and bad parts of my marriage, through all the dates I went on during my "open" marriage, separation, and dating after my husband's death,... Continue Reading →
Romantically Traumatized
I have been romantically traumatized. I'll probably miss out on the next great love of my life because I won't believe him. I've written before about how my marriage wasn’t where or what I wanted it to be. I started this blog when we were separated. Now, that my husband is dead I feel like... Continue Reading →
Soul Igniting Love
I want out-of-your-mind love. I want love that shines brighter than the brightest stars. I want someone to love me so much that there are no questions or doubts, that they are my person. I don't want to wonder, "Am I a consolation prize?" I want fire. I want passion. I want soul igniting love.... Continue Reading →